bruh wtf. i get the panic over what happened, but that's not ok. triggering topic and all. spoiler & TW the text and then maybe ping people & direct them to it, so they can choose to view it or not, knowing whats in the message. and if no one is up for it, sorry. also maybe join a specific reptile discord or subreddit or sthn? honestly even the first message is worth a spoiler & TW since it's literally "impending pet death"
also yeah the last part about "the seller told me i can use this tiny enclosure so that's what i got but research (clearly done after purchase) says the complete opposite" is wild. hopefully this is a lesson about not impulse purchasing living pets without research-- like it's one thing to do a bunch of research and know u want sthn, and then u stumble across it and impulse buy, at least u know what ur getting into. but op clearly didn't do the basic research if they didn't even know what type of enclosures they should get. and didn't think it thru if in hindsight they know these kinda snakes 'aren't for me.' hella irresponsible. hope the guilt sticks enough for them to learn.
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Re: Discord oversharing
(Anonymous) 2024-12-21 02:35 am (UTC)(link)also yeah the last part about "the seller told me i can use this tiny enclosure so that's what i got but research (clearly done after purchase) says the complete opposite" is wild. hopefully this is a lesson about not impulse purchasing living pets without research-- like it's one thing to do a bunch of research and know u want sthn, and then u stumble across it and impulse buy, at least u know what ur getting into. but op clearly didn't do the basic research if they didn't even know what type of enclosures they should get. and didn't think it thru if in hindsight they know these kinda snakes 'aren't for me.' hella irresponsible. hope the guilt sticks enough for them to learn.