DNIs are not boundaries; this is a common misconception. boundaries are rules you set for your OWN behavior, not others, ex: "if you contact me, then i will block you." telling other people what to do is not setting a boundary because you cannot control other peoples' actions, only your own.
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Re: handling dnis
(Anonymous) 2025-01-23 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)DNIs are not boundaries; this is a common misconception. boundaries are rules you set for your OWN behavior, not others, ex: "if you contact me, then i will block you." telling other people what to do is not setting a boundary because you cannot control other peoples' actions, only your own.