Thank you for both of these links! Honestly I was permanently stepping away from this thread after the last wall (minus this response of course because I appreciate the links) and going back to lurking after this. Thank you for your own concern for my wellbeing and again I apologize if my tone didn't come off as not being all that bothered. I've read and responded to what I felt like there. If someone does bother to read this (or the wall), yeah I was an asshole in this whole thing as well, and I'm trying to take the more reasonable responses and arguments here into myself to prevent this from happening again.
Also I'll do my best to use tone tags if I say anything on here in the future. Last time I attempted to implement them (which was in a Discord server) a lot of the users involved either completely ignored them and refused to pick up what they were or got confused by what anyone who used them were attempting to convey because they didn't know most past commonly used ones. All despite there being an actual pin in said server and the same users hating that they couldn't tell the tone of a message. I'll have to relearn a little myself but I still recognize a good chunk of the ones I've seen here.
Finally, I know I use a lot of I/me/myself in text. It's mostly because in the past when trying to use a mix of it and "you" no one ever took it in a general way (even with "general you" involved) and either took it as me attacking someone specific or using it purely as deflection onto a specific user instead of back on myself. It's another thing I can attempt to use more of in the future should I post here (though not in this specific thread) again. I know it can be seen as selfish or self-centered or whatever but it's better (to me) than being accused of putting words into the mouth of a user not even referred to in a conversation.
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(frozen comment) Re: 100x777 argument
(Anonymous) 2025-01-09 06:29 am (UTC)(link)Also I'll do my best to use tone tags if I say anything on here in the future. Last time I attempted to implement them (which was in a Discord server) a lot of the users involved either completely ignored them and refused to pick up what they were or got confused by what anyone who used them were attempting to convey because they didn't know most past commonly used ones. All despite there being an actual pin in said server and the same users hating that they couldn't tell the tone of a message. I'll have to relearn a little myself but I still recognize a good chunk of the ones I've seen here.
Finally, I know I use a lot of I/me/myself in text. It's mostly because in the past when trying to use a mix of it and "you" no one ever took it in a general way (even with "general you" involved) and either took it as me attacking someone specific or using it purely as deflection onto a specific user instead of back on myself. It's another thing I can attempt to use more of in the future should I post here (though not in this specific thread) again. I know it can be seen as selfish or self-centered or whatever but it's better (to me) than being accused of putting words into the mouth of a user not even referred to in a conversation.