Duchess made that statement publicly in the Fire flight... You can find it by searching her past messages in there.
As for the twitter stuff, I've been sitting on it prior to me leaving the team. Again I thought it was a point of concern alongside the other things shared here but I've been proven otherwise and accept that fact, alongside realizing that I lacked some context for some of the posts... Again im genuinely sorry in regards to that.
As far as the privacy for discussions and all that, there is an AA server for that so I figured that would've been used for private discussions among the team.
really you fucked up by posting the twitter stuff at all bc all it tells me is that she's extremely cool and based, who cares if she stole some stuff or w/e /gen
Oh come on 🙄 I agree her tweets make her seem chill but stealing valuable items that people have entrusted you with for the purpose of putting on community events is incredibly shitty. People most likely put in real work to earn those items and whatever else they contribute to dom efforts, their effort and feelings are real even if the items are virtual.
+1 Sure, her tweets are mostly based but all that proves is good politics and funny Eurovision tweets don't mean someone is 100% trustworthy... and I didn't much like that she tweeted about the person/situation in Discord like that. Retweeting a funny joke about sparkling bigotry doesn't make it okay to run off with valuable donations.
I mostly meant the person above who deliberately is using tone tags to show that they mean basically because they agree with Dutchess's politics, the stealing is not a big deal and the people praising how chill she is on Twitter and that they'd be friends with her.
Your pov is rational. Their is illogical. And Pessi needs to touch a lot of grass.
duchess is absolutely aware and watching this thread actively, or shit wouldn't have gotten deleted so fast it's pretty clear that this was her "in" to defend herself via proxy or just directly her shit wasnt even "based" or "chill", it was cringe
A dom leader doesn't need to be cool, they need to be trustworthy and capable. If a dom leader has a problem with credibility and being reliable, the whole flight is fucked. Which is obviously the case here. If Fire had leadership with a modicum of reliability, a little skill with organization, and the ability to rally the troops, they'd easily be a dom powerhouse because of their size.
A bit of advice for anyone that wants to lead dom or be a well respected member of a dom team - don't fucking post on drama sites. Letting everyone know that events are delayed or that you are correcting a problem is fine. But posting regularly on a drama site, particularly with gossipy details, is not a good look. It doesn't look good for you or your flight. Not only does it say that you are willing to get down and fling some shit, it tells people in your own flight that you are involved in drama and it's perfectly fine for them to wade in.
I mean, reading is great. You can learn things about what's going down here first. I'd prefer they keep up.
Posting isn't that big a deal either in my eyes. Just don't post that you are a dom team member, details that spill who you are, and you know... don't sign your name.
If a dom team doesn't have at least one person reading the various drama sources, they are missing out on valuable feedback. It's also the best way to know if a shit storm is coming. But those people shouldn't be visibly posting.
what kinda shit are you smoking to think so black and white like this? You can be a decent person but still do shitty things that affect other people and get rightfully called out for it.
AYRT Sorry about that, I didn’t realize it was a public statement. I’ve just been trying to follow along and try to get a better picture of what’s been going on with the team at large beyond just you or Duchess— after all it is the team at large that’s gonna need to implement any changes.
Don't worry I get the concern and dont blame you for being worried about that.
I will be stepping away from this a bit after what happened earlier just a heads up, I don't wish to contribute any more heat to the situation. (This isn't because of the above post you made anon, just going ahead and clarifying that. I am just putting this out there as this will be my last post for a good while on here.)
"I've been sitting on it prior to me leaving the team" is really weird of you. I wouldn't want a dom team member of mine hoarding screenshots of my personal Twitter to use against me whenever it suits them.
Plus, "anti-white" sentiment isn't a thing; aren't you white, while Duchess seems to be Iranian/of Middle Eastern descent?
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Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:07 am (UTC)(link)As for the twitter stuff, I've been sitting on it prior to me leaving the team. Again I thought it was a point of concern alongside the other things shared here but I've been proven otherwise and accept that fact, alongside realizing that I lacked some context for some of the posts... Again im genuinely sorry in regards to that.
As far as the privacy for discussions and all that, there is an AA server for that so I figured that would've been used for private discussions among the team.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
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(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)Sure, her tweets are mostly based but all that proves is good politics and funny Eurovision tweets don't mean someone is 100% trustworthy... and I didn't much like that she tweeted about the person/situation in Discord like that. Retweeting a funny joke about sparkling bigotry doesn't make it okay to run off with valuable donations.
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(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)Your pov is rational. Their is illogical. And Pessi needs to touch a lot of grass.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-07 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)duchess is absolutely aware and watching this thread actively, or shit wouldn't have gotten deleted so fast
it's pretty clear that this was her "in" to defend herself via proxy or just directly
her shit wasnt even "based" or "chill", it was cringe
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:30 am (UTC)(link)this is why firedom is shit lmao. i hope you're not in any dom team nonny.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:35 am (UTC)(link)Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)A dom leader doesn't need to be cool, they need to be trustworthy and capable. If a dom leader has a problem with credibility and being reliable, the whole flight is fucked. Which is obviously the case here. If Fire had leadership with a modicum of reliability, a little skill with organization, and the ability to rally the troops, they'd easily be a dom powerhouse because of their size.
A bit of advice for anyone that wants to lead dom or be a well respected member of a dom team - don't fucking post on drama sites. Letting everyone know that events are delayed or that you are correcting a problem is fine. But posting regularly on a drama site, particularly with gossipy details, is not a good look. It doesn't look good for you or your flight. Not only does it say that you are willing to get down and fling some shit, it tells people in your own flight that you are involved in drama and it's perfectly fine for them to wade in.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)I mean, reading is great. You can learn things about what's going down here first. I'd prefer they keep up.
Posting isn't that big a deal either in my eyes. Just don't post that you are a dom team member, details that spill who you are, and you know... don't sign your name.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
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(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)After this one, I'm getting the popcorn ready if it happens again.
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(Anonymous) 2023-09-07 10:01 am (UTC)(link)Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:35 am (UTC)(link)Sorry about that, I didn’t realize it was a public statement. I’ve just been trying to follow along and try to get a better picture of what’s been going on with the team at large beyond just you or Duchess— after all it is the team at large that’s gonna need to implement any changes.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:46 am (UTC)(link)I will be stepping away from this a bit after what happened earlier just a heads up, I don't wish to contribute any more heat to the situation. (This isn't because of the above post you made anon, just going ahead and clarifying that. I am just putting this out there as this will be my last post for a good while on here.)
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(Anonymous) 2023-09-07 05:32 am (UTC)(link)Plus, "anti-white" sentiment isn't a thing; aren't you white, while Duchess seems to be Iranian/of Middle Eastern descent?