extremely classic "i dont remember this" when faced with actual screenshots taken moments ago proving you straight up lied...
look. i used to be a horrible person. im not getting into details but i used to get posted on here all the time too, and sometimes i would defend myself and other times not. i get it. you want to defend yourself but, dakkokki, true change happens after remorse. remorse can only happen if you REMEMBER why you should be remorseful this whole issue thats happening right now, is you "dont remember" all the things people are upset with you about. it shows you havent changed your MINDSET around the things youve done wrong
this is me telling you as someone who has been exactly in your shoes, that you need to stop. stop trying to defend yourself or deflect with "i dont remember" (and yes, that is deflecting, even though youre arguing that it isnt). you need to keep a tight hold on the memories of the things youve done wrong in order to change the behaviors behind it, or you'll never truly change and grow i would LIKE to see you change and grow, but the path youre taking right now is not it. stop defending yourself. even if something seems unfair to you... stop this is a salt comm, not an intervention room. you will not change peoples' minds about you by doing this as youve seen, it only prompts people to dig deeper and deeper to prove you're lying. do you think AYRT would have scoured your skin thread to find if you were printing this, if you weren't arguing that you never successfully ran it / weren't running it now? do you think people would take the time out of their day to google ram skulls and see which one overlays over a comm you did, if you hadn't said "i've never traced a commission"?
by defending your name, you are digging the grave, and i hope you can see that. hopefully soon
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(frozen comment) Re: Dakkokki - the brightside
(Anonymous) 2023-05-22 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)https://imgur.com/a/gPnTvjx
(frozen comment) Re: Dakkokki - the brightside
(Anonymous) 2023-05-22 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)All I know is that it's not in my shop now and that my current skin shop was a literal copy / paste of my old one.
(frozen comment) Re: Dakkokki - the brightside
(Anonymous) 2023-05-23 03:45 am (UTC)(link)look. i used to be a horrible person. im not getting into details but i used to get posted on here all the time too, and sometimes i would defend myself and other times not. i get it. you want to defend yourself
but, dakkokki, true change happens after remorse. remorse can only happen if you REMEMBER why you should be remorseful
this whole issue thats happening right now, is you "dont remember" all the things people are upset with you about. it shows you havent changed your MINDSET around the things youve done wrong
this is me telling you as someone who has been exactly in your shoes, that you need to stop. stop trying to defend yourself or deflect with "i dont remember" (and yes, that is deflecting, even though youre arguing that it isnt). you need to keep a tight hold on the memories of the things youve done wrong in order to change the behaviors behind it, or you'll never truly change and grow
i would LIKE to see you change and grow, but the path youre taking right now is not it. stop defending yourself. even if something seems unfair to you... stop
this is a salt comm, not an intervention room. you will not change peoples' minds about you by doing this
as youve seen, it only prompts people to dig deeper and deeper to prove you're lying. do you think AYRT would have scoured your skin thread to find if you were printing this, if you weren't arguing that you never successfully ran it / weren't running it now? do you think people would take the time out of their day to google ram skulls and see which one overlays over a comm you did, if you hadn't said "i've never traced a commission"?
by defending your name, you are digging the grave, and i hope you can see that. hopefully soon
(frozen comment) Re: Dakkokki - the brightside
(Anonymous) 2023-05-22 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)