Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Jesus shitting Christ who has the time to write all this, and still not a single relevant screenshot in sight. Can that anon stop beating this dead horse so DR can get back to bitching about festival drama?

https://dramarising-replacement.tumblr.com/post/641747770936639488/hello-there-we-have-decided-that-it-is-high-time

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 03:31 pm (UTC)(link)
plz tl;dr because I started to read, then realized the length and just blanked out

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 03:46 pm (UTC)(link)
TL;DR Lightning Bad because they're unorganized and ""gaslight.""

Man how will Lightning ever recover from this blistering callout... wow...

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, yes, thank you, truly, how will 52126 people in Lightning flight will recover from this post...

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope whoever keeps posting this stuff gets therapy because they really, really need it

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I absolutely agree with you.

People need to calm down when it comes to dom culture and curb their expectations towards others and stop treating their flight like its more than what it really is. It's okay to be proud of your flight and all but not to the point where you feel entitled to the time and energy of volunteers.

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
The funniest thing to me about this post is the thing one person in the comments pointed out:

"it seems weird to start making accusations of people being abusive to other players and then start talking about how it’s awful that their spreadsheets they made on their free time for free aren’t very good"

Like, Dom is made up of free volunteers. They criticize how few people seem to be bearing most of the burden of the Dom work, then criticize that work. Like, huh?

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-30 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who was legit gaslighted their entire childhood and now needs CBT/therapy because of it?

This whole thing really makes me uncomfortable, because there's a difference between being underhanded on the net and gaslighting someone to keep them confused and doubting themselves so they're easier to control for the purpose of abuse.

A few comments on a drama post ain't gaslighting.

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-31 10:56 am (UTC)(link)
Oof, I tried looking up cbt to see what it was and I am pretty sure it doesnt mean cock and ball torture

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-31 11:05 am (UTC)(link)
Don't shame, perhaps they need cock&balls torture to deal with their trauma, everyone deals individually! Or perhaps it's https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy

Re: Lightning Dom & "Gaslighting"

(Anonymous) 2021-01-31 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm the anon from above, and YES, it's Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, lol.

(I don't have a cock so idk if that's my Thing or NOT LOL)