nayrt - semi related but I distinctly remember AC talking about how their entire family (including sister) were abusive and left them to die in the streets on their personal tumblr last year during one of their classic breakdowns. Of course the tumblr is nuked now, just my luck for grabbing screens, but I'm sure you can imagine the usual MO.
I always find it wild how AC has a dedicated circle of supporters (sibling, close friends, partner) who will very publicly die on a hill for them, yet AC manages to consistently trash and speak down on and to these folks very publicly on their tumblr when having breakdowns. I can't imagine how they speak to this circle in private especially when they're having one of their bad moments, if that's how they're willing to speak on their circle in the public eye.
If anything I have to imagine that circle is the one bankrolling AC.
i'm so glad someone else has noticed this! on more than one occasion i've seen a post by AC blaming their partner for any number of things and how it's not THEIR fault that they're going to die etc etc or seen AC arguing in the comments with one of the few friends they have
i would not be surprised if these arguments/"abuse" stem from these people trying to stand up for themselves or just not reacting perfectly to something unhinged from AC.
ayrt, it's not lost on me that AC's "silence is complicity" post (I believe someone archived it earlier in the thread) dropped after everyone in their circle but their partner snackatlas made or reblogged/liked a post defending them. Not trying to pick apart their relationships and friendships obviously but this isn't the first time AC has vagueposted seemingly about their partner. I can't help but think it must be mentally draining to be friends with AC, knowing you're only 1 disapproved action away from being put on blast publicly (the very thing AC freaks out over happening to them, lol), and leaving the friendship is being slotted neatly into the "abuser/stalker" category for the rest of your life.
SA https://web.archive.org/web/20250220075840/https://www.tumblr.com/snackatlas/775926757570265088/you-know-if-any-of-you-had-ever-actually-cared-to If I'm a troll.... and you're a troll..... who the hell is driving the car?!
this struck me recently. they're always saying that everyone in their household is abusing them, but... wouldn't that include their partner, who they've supposedly been happily married to for 12 years? i swear they alluded to making a callout post for them at some point.
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Re: AC at it again
(Anonymous) 2025-02-18 02:24 am (UTC)(link)I always find it wild how AC has a dedicated circle of supporters (sibling, close friends, partner) who will very publicly die on a hill for them, yet AC manages to consistently trash and speak down on and to these folks very publicly on their tumblr when having breakdowns. I can't imagine how they speak to this circle in private especially when they're having one of their bad moments, if that's how they're willing to speak on their circle in the public eye.
If anything I have to imagine that circle is the one bankrolling AC.
Re: AC at it again
(Anonymous) 2025-02-18 03:26 am (UTC)(link)i would not be surprised if these arguments/"abuse" stem from these people trying to stand up for themselves or just not reacting perfectly to something unhinged from AC.
Re: AC at it again
(Anonymous) 2025-02-18 05:40 am (UTC)(link)Re: AC at it again
(Anonymous) 2025-02-20 08:00 am (UTC)(link)https://web.archive.org/web/20250220075840/https://www.tumblr.com/snackatlas/775926757570265088/you-know-if-any-of-you-had-ever-actually-cared-to
If I'm a troll.... and you're a troll..... who the hell is driving the car?!
Re: AC at it again
(Anonymous) 2025-02-18 08:11 am (UTC)(link)