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did you actually want to party more, at the time?

or is that a feeling that pops up only when comparing your life to other lives?

Yes I do want to party more. What's up with introverts deciding that people don't have a real desire to do so?

ayrt

sheesh what's with the hostility????

i asked "did" because i was working with the limited information your post provided and wanted to clarify where your dissatisfaction come from,

as in, did you feel, at the time, that you were getting your fill of partying and were at the time satisfied with how your life unfolded and only now, in the present time, in hindsight do you wish you had done things different

OR

did you always feel like you weren't doing enough

what i was trying to get at is that comparison is the thief of joy and all that but if you are going to be like that nevermind

Yes I have enjoyed partying. I haven't done it as much as I wanted because of time management/availability/health issues.

If you want to say not to compare, that's fine. But I don't see what bringing up your awesome story has to do with anything? Of course you don't want to party anymore because you had your share. What does that have to do with people who didn't have the opportunity to?

ayrt

??? i never said anything about partying myself, are you replying to the wrong anon?

na from op's replies in this thread she's a bitter bitch so don't feel bad or anythin

ayrt

yeahhh

i was going to point out that it's common at this age to look back on one's life trajectory and feel all like "oh dang i'm no longer young" and try to figure out if one lived life "right" or not, so i wanted to make sure if op's question was that

OR if it was more about the health issues/circumstances making them feel, back when they were young, that they were missing out compared to their peers

because those scenarios would require different approaches because one is you know mortality and legacy involved and the other more formative and coming to terms with the circumstances you were born into

NAYRT

Yeah, as they say: hindsight is 20/20!

As already mentioned, OP is being super bitter for some reason and not giving us much info to go off of. The only time we get anything about them is a little snippet wrapped up in a scathing remark. It's kind of frustrating. We obviously want to help but each problem has its own solution. :/

you sound like a bitch

whoa jeez...remember that you're on an anoncomm and no one knows who you are. Youre asking for help but give these people very little context about yourself so they're trying to feel for you to see what advice would be most helpful. Don't be such a dickweed

How is smugly saying "The grass is greener on the other side" supposed to be good advice?

I had to re-read the post you are referring to multiple times to try and find where the smugness was and still couldn't find it. Also, of all the advice on this thread has given, that's the one thing that stood out for you to comment on? lol

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