Seen people similar to Duchess and they almost always come off as nice or at the very minimum, someone people look up to or can rely on at the beginning on the outside but turns out to be a self-serving, backstabbing asshole in private. If you’re close to people like that, calling them out is extremely difficult as outsiders and their other friends who don’t know any better would defend them lmao.
Seems like this is what is happening in firedom, with multiple people reporting her pattern of allegedly malingering during important push dates, NO transparency on donations and maybe even stealing them but AA not wanting to oust her. Would not be surprised if the folks defending her on AA are either friends of hers that choose to be blind to the blatant abuse of power or on copium that things would be worse without her.
As for the social media stuff, it looks like Pessi and others got baited hard by an anon bringing it up for activity around the time she’s apparently in the hospital. The content of stuff posted on social media is mainly irrelevant and I don’t think it’s necessary to even bring up those, given that theres achievement activity on her FR account during the time she’s in the hospital. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt that she’s just bored in the hospital and fiddling around on dragon pngs then but given what other ember anons had said about her convenient disappearing act around pushes... pressing X to doubt.
Looking at the timestamps again, it seems like she’s already out of the hospital before activity on her FR account but my doubt still stands. If it’s true though, I do hope she gets well soon. It doesn’t seem like she’s in any position to work on dom stuff regardless especially with the dom donations stealing allegations. That really sucks for embers and anyone who contributed and everything here honestly puts me off from supporting firedom for a long time. :/
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Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)Seen people similar to Duchess and they almost always come off as nice or at the very minimum, someone people look up to or can rely on at the beginning on the outside but turns out to be a self-serving, backstabbing asshole in private. If you’re close to people like that, calling them out is extremely difficult as outsiders and their other friends who don’t know any better would defend them lmao.
Seems like this is what is happening in firedom, with multiple people reporting her pattern of allegedly malingering during important push dates, NO transparency on donations and maybe even stealing them but AA not wanting to oust her. Would not be surprised if the folks defending her on AA are either friends of hers that choose to be blind to the blatant abuse of power or on copium that things would be worse without her.
As for the social media stuff, it looks like Pessi and others got baited hard by an anon bringing it up for activity around the time she’s apparently in the hospital. The content of stuff posted on social media is mainly irrelevant and I don’t think it’s necessary to even bring up those, given that theres achievement activity on her FR account during the time she’s in the hospital. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt that she’s just bored in the hospital and fiddling around on dragon pngs then but given what other ember anons had said about her convenient disappearing act around pushes... pressing X to doubt.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)Considering concussion and a broken collar bone supposedly bad enough to need surgery, bored in the hospital feels very sketchy to me.
Re: An update regarding FireDom
(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)Looking at the timestamps again, it seems like she’s already out of the hospital before activity on her FR account but my doubt still stands. If it’s true though, I do hope she gets well soon. It doesn’t seem like she’s in any position to work on dom stuff regardless especially with the dom donations stealing allegations. That really sucks for embers and anyone who contributed and everything here honestly puts me off from supporting firedom for a long time. :/