Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
really you fucked up by posting the twitter stuff at all bc all it tells me is that she's extremely cool and based, who cares if she stole some stuff or w/e /gen

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Oh come on 🙄 I agree her tweets make her seem chill but stealing valuable items that people have entrusted you with for the purpose of putting on community events is incredibly shitty. People most likely put in real work to earn those items and whatever else they contribute to dom efforts, their effort and feelings are real even if the items are virtual.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)
+1
Sure, her tweets are mostly based but all that proves is good politics and funny Eurovision tweets don't mean someone is 100% trustworthy... and I didn't much like that she tweeted about the person/situation in Discord like that. Retweeting a funny joke about sparkling bigotry doesn't make it okay to run off with valuable donations.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I will be honest, a little of this praising her is starting to feel like friends of hers brigading.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not a friend of hers and think she needs to step down, I just find pessi off-putting themselves atp

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I mostly meant the person above who deliberately is using tone tags to show that they mean basically because they agree with Dutchess's politics, the stealing is not a big deal and the people praising how chill she is on Twitter and that they'd be friends with her.

Your pov is rational. Their is illogical. And Pessi needs to touch a lot of grass.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-07 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
+1000

duchess is absolutely aware and watching this thread actively, or shit wouldn't have gotten deleted so fast
it's pretty clear that this was her "in" to defend herself via proxy or just directly
her shit wasnt even "based" or "chill", it was cringe

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
"stealing is ok bc shes chill"

this is why firedom is shit lmao. i hope you're not in any dom team nonny.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
I have not a horse in this race, but things have heated a lot in firedom(pun intended).

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

A dom leader doesn't need to be cool, they need to be trustworthy and capable. If a dom leader has a problem with credibility and being reliable, the whole flight is fucked. Which is obviously the case here. If Fire had leadership with a modicum of reliability, a little skill with organization, and the ability to rally the troops, they'd easily be a dom powerhouse because of their size.

A bit of advice for anyone that wants to lead dom or be a well respected member of a dom team - don't fucking post on drama sites. Letting everyone know that events are delayed or that you are correcting a problem is fine. But posting regularly on a drama site, particularly with gossipy details, is not a good look. It doesn't look good for you or your flight. Not only does it say that you are willing to get down and fling some shit, it tells people in your own flight that you are involved in drama and it's perfectly fine for them to wade in.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 07:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yea. And fire has none of that right now.

I mean, reading is great. You can learn things about what's going down here first. I'd prefer they keep up.

Posting isn't that big a deal either in my eyes. Just don't post that you are a dom team member, details that spill who you are, and you know... don't sign your name.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
If a dom team doesn't have at least one person reading the various drama sources, they are missing out on valuable feedback. It's also the best way to know if a shit storm is coming. But those people shouldn't be visibly posting.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-06 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Every time a deanoned dom team member posted here, it has been a shitshow.

After this one, I'm getting the popcorn ready if it happens again.

Re: An update regarding FireDom

(Anonymous) 2023-09-07 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
what kinda shit are you smoking to think so black and white like this? You can be a decent person but still do shitty things that affect other people and get rightfully called out for it.