woah, i cannot imagine a decade later having people still seething about me and not allowing for space for me to grow as a person and change at all. that's awful, i'm sorry you went through that and I'm glad it seems like you're able to enjoy the site again after all this time. some people truly never grow out of awful mentalities
thank you, yeah, ive managed to find my love for the site again it did take me a lot of therapy to get to where i am today and im able to look past all this and just have fun again without getting mired in drama beyond.. well, this comm lol. the mods do good at not letting actual /cruelty/ slide
as for dracoon, i honestly dont want like... a separate wank thread to be made about them for all the shit ive reposted here, and im hoping people respect my wishes there (unless ofc they do more dumb shit /now/). this shit started in 2014, and 2018???(?) is around when i took my break and then dracoon had nothing to keep posting me on this comm for (dracoon and their buddies kept posting more and more flimsy shit on here, to the point where "hi dracoon" became a meme and is one of the biggest reasons "hi x" is against the rules now, lol) that was an aside, my main point is, its entirely possible dracoon has also moved past this, and has become a better person. i dont know. i am (thankfully, frankly) not in any shared space with them. but i am a firm believer in the mantra "anyone can change". even the worst people can do a 180, as long as they have the mindset to recognize where their behavior was wrong and work hard to change that. it's a difficult path, but it's one i hope anyone who does this kind of shit will take. some day
maybe I'm just old, but i don't see how even jokingly "killing" someone you have beef with is appropriate in any sort of audience. why would you externalize that, even. What in gods name is this chronically online bs
yeah its a very, very weird response to someone whos annoying you. i understand making lighthearted jokes to close friends where there is a /mutual understanding/ of the joke like "hey [friend] meet me behind the dairy queen tonight for an ass kicking"...
but to explicitly talk about wanting to shoot someone you dislike? and laughing about how they would be easy to kill? incredibly deranged and abnormal behavior. it isnt even remotely funny.
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AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-03 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)https://i.imgur.com/6c0KI8Z.png
https://i.imgur.com/2T0jBCp.png
and then heres the thread about me "vs" them
https://anonrising.dreamwidth.org/2560.html?thread=7869952#cmt7869952
with bonus experience from the mods
i hope this satisfies the guy who insists im just being dramatic
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-03 03:17 pm (UTC)(link)https://imgur.com/a/Hmuv3
forgot to add dracoons response to me seeing her shooting me comments
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-03 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)woah, i cannot imagine a decade later having people still seething about me and not allowing for space for me to grow as a person and change at all. that's awful, i'm sorry you went through that and I'm glad it seems like you're able to enjoy the site again after all this time. some people truly never grow out of awful mentalities
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-04 02:16 am (UTC)(link)it did take me a lot of therapy to get to where i am today and im able to look past all this and just have fun again without getting mired in drama beyond.. well, this comm lol. the mods do good at not letting actual /cruelty/ slide
as for dracoon, i honestly dont want like... a separate wank thread to be made about them for all the shit ive reposted here, and im hoping people respect my wishes there (unless ofc they do more dumb shit /now/). this shit started in 2014, and 2018???(?) is around when i took my break and then dracoon had nothing to keep posting me on this comm for (dracoon and their buddies kept posting more and more flimsy shit on here, to the point where "hi dracoon" became a meme and is one of the biggest reasons "hi x" is against the rules now, lol)
that was an aside, my main point is, its entirely possible dracoon has also moved past this, and has become a better person. i dont know. i am (thankfully, frankly) not in any shared space with them. but i am a firm believer in the mantra "anyone can change". even the worst people can do a 180, as long as they have the mindset to recognize where their behavior was wrong and work hard to change that. it's a difficult path, but it's one i hope anyone who does this kind of shit will take. some day
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-04 12:33 am (UTC)(link)Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-04 12:42 am (UTC)(link)but to explicitly talk about wanting to shoot someone you dislike? and laughing about how they would be easy to kill? incredibly deranged and abnormal behavior. it isnt even remotely funny.
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2023-04-04 01:29 am (UTC)(link)