I understand where you're coming from, but it's kind of hard for me to wrap my head around. If I put myself in their perspective, I tend to think kind of like "If I were uncomfortable with this word, and had politely asked people in the past, and they did not respect it to begin with, I would definitely slowly be less polite/meek and more front and center and assertive about it!" From my perspective I feel like if someone has something like that front and center in their profile, I would assume it's more someone trying to help someone to see a boundary they've had stepped on over and over. But honestly I do understand what you're saying and I appreciate your perspective on it, sorry for all the walls of text lol. I should probably stop going back and forth since this is an FR drama comm and not meant for this kind of discussion so I hope you have a good night!
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anonrerising2022-08-02 07:34 pm
Re: not trying to stir anything
(Anonymous) 2022-10-17 01:07 am (UTC)(link)I understand where you're coming from, but it's kind of hard for me to wrap my head around. If I put myself in their perspective, I tend to think kind of like "If I were uncomfortable with this word, and had politely asked people in the past, and they did not respect it to begin with, I would definitely slowly be less polite/meek and more front and center and assertive about it!" From my perspective I feel like if someone has something like that front and center in their profile, I would assume it's more someone trying to help someone to see a boundary they've had stepped on over and over. But honestly I do understand what you're saying and I appreciate your perspective on it, sorry for all the walls of text lol. I should probably stop going back and forth since this is an FR drama comm and not meant for this kind of discussion so I hope you have a good night!