Re: UtterlyWeird

(Anonymous) 2021-04-28 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously, it actually feels insulting to autistic people.

They're outright insinuating autism is why they're an asshole, and not... Them being an asshole.

Re: UtterlyWeird

(Anonymous) 2021-04-28 04:47 pm (UTC)(link)
... okay, how the fuck did I manage to make pronoun mistakes in this thread? Damn I'm a dumbass. She. I need to stop posting when I'm just waking up. Or you know, stop existing on 4 hours of sleep and caffeine.

But seriously, in a lot of circles, I've been told they is the pronoun to use if you don't know or don't remember. I'm in discords with rules saying use they until you know.

Re: UtterlyWeird

(Anonymous) 2021-04-30 05:11 am (UTC)(link)
It is. She can be as sniffy about it as she wants to be, but they is a common - and not novel - way to refer to people of unknown gender.