Listen I know this is old shit, like beyond-beyond old shit, but I am still utterly furious that this absolute piece of work hasn't fucked up somehow and gotten banned yet. Worse, I hate that she lives in my goddamn brain rent-free. I'm not even friends with the people she fucked over any more--we've gone our own ways--but sometimes I remember and I just. Want to furiously chew on a pack of nails. It's astonishing, really, with the kinds of people she's friends with and her vinegar gargling attitude that she hasn't screwed up on the site yet and gotten banned. How do you not get sick of yourself being like that all the time. I'm a literal diagnosed Narcissist and I don't understand this garbage.
And in case you wanna say she's changed imma stop you right there; no she hasn't. I did try to reach out to her a while back, an olive branch, so to speak. It didn't go well. (No details on that, don't wanna deanon myself just in case.)
+1 to posting this in the Wanker area, but when you do can you also maybe explain more of what they've done? i have no idea who this person is and would love to read the tea on what happened previously
non drama talk but i understand the position you're in an how easy it to have nasty people living rent free in your head. i know it's hard but it's not worth it to obsess over them and it's super unhealthy for you.
+1. It is indeed a hard habit to break, but it I find it 'helps' (poor word choice given context) to remember that there are always much much worse people in the world that whoever you're brooding over. There always will be. You can suck all the joy out of your life if you focus on them. Get cut off in traffic and fume for the next 15 minutes, that doesn't punish the rude driver, only you and anyone else in the car. (*cough*Mom.*cough*) Just find something good on the radio instead.
Plus, as you said, often nasty drama-llama people (or whatever the issue is with this specific user) get at least some punishment from living inside their *own* heads. It sounds like an exhausting way to be.
(With habits, it's also easier to consciously DO something than NOT do something. Pick a relatively brain-consuming thing (working on a dragon bio, trying out a coli challenge in a venue you don't play often, finding some newbies to giftbomb or answer questions for) and make a point of redirecting yourself to that when the dwelling starts up.)
Not op but here’s a thread about them https://anonrising.dreamwidth.org/14898.html?thread=60236850#cmt60236850
I also found this weird pastebin (was googling “anonrising dracoon” to find the anonrising thread and it popped up) which shows dracoon had been bulling this person for a long time (2014 pastebin, to 2017 anonrising thread, and tbh probably to today) https://pastebin.com/3VxTRETW
literally every single of my friends and people I know that ever interacted with Dracoon no matter how briefly got burned from it, including me. complete waste of a person, everyone would be better off if they had quit FR five years ago
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Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 04:53 am (UTC)(link)And in case you wanna say she's changed imma stop you right there; no she hasn't. I did try to reach out to her a while back, an olive branch, so to speak. It didn't go well. (No details on that, don't wanna deanon myself just in case.)
Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 04:56 am (UTC)(link)Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 05:14 am (UTC)(link)Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 06:35 am (UTC)(link)Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 05:18 am (UTC)(link)non drama talk but i understand the position you're in an how easy it to have nasty people living rent free in your head. i know it's hard but it's not worth it to obsess over them and it's super unhealthy for you.
Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 05:48 am (UTC)(link)Plus, as you said, often nasty drama-llama people (or whatever the issue is with this specific user) get at least some punishment from living inside their *own* heads. It sounds like an exhausting way to be.
(With habits, it's also easier to consciously DO something than NOT do something. Pick a relatively brain-consuming thing (working on a dragon bio, trying out a coli challenge in a venue you don't play often, finding some newbies to giftbomb or answer questions for) and make a point of redirecting yourself to that when the dwelling starts up.)
Hope things get better for you.
Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 05:51 am (UTC)(link)I also found this weird pastebin (was googling “anonrising dracoon” to find the anonrising thread and it popped up) which shows dracoon had been bulling this person for a long time (2014 pastebin, to 2017 anonrising thread, and tbh probably to today) https://pastebin.com/3VxTRETW
Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 06:11 am (UTC)(link)complete waste of a person, everyone would be better off if they had quit FR five years ago
Re: Dracoon
(Anonymous) 2021-04-20 06:58 am (UTC)(link)Re: Dracoon
And yes, Dracoon's 1000% a piece of shit.