I really don't like that there's this faint smell of using their problems to justify not even attempting to change their behavior (the whole "I have autism so everything I do is OK" shtick, there's a difference between saying that you will have trouble changing your behavior because of your autism vs saying that you will not change your behavior because you have autism).
... okay, how the fuck did I manage to make pronoun mistakes in this thread? Damn I'm a dumbass. She. I need to stop posting when I'm just waking up. Or you know, stop existing on 4 hours of sleep and caffeine.
But seriously, in a lot of circles, I've been told they is the pronoun to use if you don't know or don't remember. I'm in discords with rules saying use they until you know.
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Re: UtterlyWeird
(Anonymous) 2021-04-28 08:36 am (UTC)(link)Re: UtterlyWeird
(Anonymous) 2021-04-28 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)They're outright insinuating autism is why they're an asshole, and not... Them being an asshole.
Re: UtterlyWeird
(Anonymous) 2021-04-28 04:47 pm (UTC)(link)But seriously, in a lot of circles, I've been told they is the pronoun to use if you don't know or don't remember. I'm in discords with rules saying use they until you know.
Re: UtterlyWeird
(Anonymous) 2021-04-30 05:11 am (UTC)(link)