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1: Let There Be Salt

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Re: Dealing with "aging"?
(Anonymous) 2020-09-03 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)I want to put a disclaimer here and say that I do not know your mental health status or much of anything at all about you so take my advice with a grain of salt. If it doesn't apply to you for any reason, then it simply doesn't apply and that's that. I am not after you in any way.
You mentioned that you're behind in both career and partying so:
To get a decent job to help fuel your party life you can always broaden your horizons and seek getting into a trade or certain certification to up your salary. Observe the economical trends of your country and see what jobs are sought after but easily obtainable. You'd be surprised, and some of them are easy to get training/certifications for if you know how to research for it. Knowing the laws, regulations, and even how loans work in your area/country help too. Some things are self taught that can boost your salary like knowing how excel spreadsheets work. (this personally allowed me to rub elbows with the higher ups of my career...hell yeah.. you want a spreadsheet that can filter info for you with one click? I got you baby) All of what I mentioned requires elbow grease though, which sucks.
Oh, and as for the parties, getting into decent 'adult' parties takes quite a bit of time to develop a social web for, but from my experience attending things like live concerts and sporting events helps to fill the void a little in the meantime. Plenty of people, plenty of drinking! But yeah, meet enough cool people in your area and there's a BBQ or some party going on almost every weekend popping up on your social feed.
(on a side note I came from a poor family and am doing well in my early 30's to be able to travel so don't make dumb assumptions tyty)