Not even gender necessarily, but in general if someone gives you a pretty basic and reasonable boundary: "do not use that term to refer to me" You are 100% the asshole if you either continue to ignore their request or question why. It's not that hard to be respectful to reach other. x.x

willmod4munny, people told you this multiple times within the Tumblr post. It's weird that you still seem determined to defend yourself with excuses as to why you couldn't give someone the most basic amount of respect.