Reframe it as 'someone is destroying company's property', do not add more details on what kind of content they promote (assuming you didn't already do that). If there's a building manager, try them instead, also just mention 'property destruction' without details. If HR/building manager is fine with such 'destruction', add any other sticker on the terfy ones, don't bother with a particular message, neither their readers nor the one adding the stickers will change their minds easily anyway - or at least no random sticker in a bathroom made me change my mind, I go to the work bathroom to poop, not to hold debates.
Honestly, agreed, no one is going to change their mind over toilet stickers. My vote is just cover the message with stupid cheap stickers or sharpy. Sharpy may be better, as you can't be accused of damaging the toilet with stickers yourself then.
I don't care if it changes people's minds. It's incredibly hostile. I really feel like I need to hold the girl who posted them accountable. Weirdly enough, unlike most TERFs, she isn't ugly. I only found out who it was after looking through her bag lmao
AYRT What's her looks have to do with anything?... Frankly, instead of trying to hold her accountable (you're not the police or her mother or her boss), I'd suggest reflecting on why the first thing to pop into your mind to comment on is her appearance.
There's plenty enough that are attractive that they are the face of the movement, and plenty that are "normal looking" AND rich that carry the movement- look at JKR.
Also like... there's nothing wrong with being physically unattractive; it's not something folks can help sometimes. Conflating physical appearance with being evil is shitty behavior, too, considering terfs usually do the same thing to trans women.
You can insult plenty of other things about a terf without insulting their appearance.
there's so many things to criticize TERFs for - harassment, transphobia, homophobia, racism, harmful gender norms, partnership with right-wing hate groups, the list goes on. ignoring all of these very real, very violent problems and instead saying "lol terfs r uglee" completely misses the entire point of criticizing TERF ideology.
and yeah, i do understand that offhand comments are a lot easier than writing out essays, but if OP is trying to make a change in their institution/HR they need to have some meaning put into it.
Touching other people's stuff without premission and 'looking through' it is creepier than some girl thinking she's in high school to stick crap in the bathroom.
I've always hated when people bring up looks when talking about these types of people. There's probably someone that you'd consider "ugly" but also has the same views as you, so mentioning looks is pointless and makes you look shallow.
You do know that by looking through her shit to find that, you basically killed any credibility an accusation could have, right? You had no right to do that, TERF or not.
i hate terfs as much as the next guy but i feel like hr would care more about someone going through someone else's shit as opposed to stickers in the bathroom
you sound like the type of person terfs make up/use to vindicate their agendas. by doing this you've probably done them a favor in solidifying their beliefs. ggs anon, hope the upcoming call from hr goes well
god how funny would it be if OP was a terf larping about this whole situation in order to either get sympathy from internet randos or bait us into saying some shit like "u should poison the terf for putting up stickers"
hilarious and fairly convincing that the only stuff OP has shared about this situation is that 1) HR is on the terfs side 2) the anti-terf is a bad coworker and 3) the terf is soooo sexie hot and attractive
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-17 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)What's her looks have to do with anything?... Frankly, instead of trying to hold her accountable (you're not the police or her mother or her boss), I'd suggest reflecting on why the first thing to pop into your mind to comment on is her appearance.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-17 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)Also like... there's nothing wrong with being physically unattractive; it's not something folks can help sometimes. Conflating physical appearance with being evil is shitty behavior, too, considering terfs usually do the same thing to trans women.
You can insult plenty of other things about a terf without insulting their appearance.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-18 12:12 am (UTC)(link)Missing the point.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-18 01:00 am (UTC)(link)and yeah, i do understand that offhand comments are a lot easier than writing out essays, but if OP is trying to make a change in their institution/HR they need to have some meaning put into it.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-18 10:32 am (UTC)(link)you sound like the type of person terfs make up/use to vindicate their agendas. by doing this you've probably done them a favor in solidifying their beliefs. ggs anon, hope the upcoming call from hr goes well
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-18 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)god how funny would it be if OP was a terf larping about this whole situation in order to either get sympathy from internet randos or bait us into saying some shit like "u should poison the terf for putting up stickers"
hilarious and fairly convincing that the only stuff OP has shared about this situation is that 1) HR is on the terfs side 2) the anti-terf is a bad coworker and 3) the terf is soooo sexie hot and attractive