Re: not trying to stir anything

(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
^^^^THIS.

The wishes of people who don't want to be called queer themselves should be respected. But in the last ten years or so, people who want to exclude certain groups (bi, pan, or trans as the link says, but I've also seen it deployed against ace people, or basically anyone the excluder doesn't like) from the lbgt+ umbrella have pushed hard to get it classified as a slur which no one should use, ever.