may i just say that even if saltmarsh feels like this, saying so to a server full of nb and lgbt people is the dumbest thing someone could possibly do. like… they have absolutely 0 awareness of time and place. i don’t think they’re a malicious bigot, just an uneducated normie, but i’m genuinely shocked they couldn’t just hold their tongue and realize the audience they’re speaking to is not going to have a charitable interpretation of ‘using theythem pronouns is an inconvenience to me and i have no interest being convinced otherwise’.