i disagree, i think it's HELLA rude to do that. this is like the jehovas witnesses of "talking about things that might be upsetting". they randomly go up to your door/messages and thrust some ideal into your face to change your mind

bringing up genuinely harmful stuff is different. but this was a crock of horseshit and rude as shit to boot, and thats one reason its against the rules on the site bc you really have no right to even message someone about this unless it's in your own offspring lists and is directly connected to you