That said, I'm on the side of 'some things should be removed at request, others deserve to stay up, depending on content' - your situation is exactly the circumstance I believe a post should be removed. You having a fest skin that someone doesn't like or whatever harms absolutely no one. Frankly, it's not even the sort of thing I'm on drama blogs to see - if I don't like an accent I just go on with my day because it doesn't affect or offend me. If you're uncomfortable with it being up or receiving harassment because of it, it should be taken down if you request because leaving it up does absolutely nothing. Whereas a post documenting someone's scamming behavior or bigoted views serves as a warning against that person, whose actions can actually affect someone else, and allow rational people to block and move on (which is all that should be done - no messaging, no harassment, no posting on their threads - just block them).
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That said, I'm on the side of 'some things should be removed at request, others deserve to stay up, depending on content' - your situation is exactly the circumstance I believe a post should be removed. You having a fest skin that someone doesn't like or whatever harms absolutely no one. Frankly, it's not even the sort of thing I'm on drama blogs to see - if I don't like an accent I just go on with my day because it doesn't affect or offend me. If you're uncomfortable with it being up or receiving harassment because of it, it should be taken down if you request because leaving it up does absolutely nothing. Whereas a post documenting someone's scamming behavior or bigoted views serves as a warning against that person, whose actions can actually affect someone else, and allow rational people to block and move on (which is all that should be done - no messaging, no harassment, no posting on their threads - just block them).