ehhhh, theres been a nonzero amount of times where ive asked for proof/screens on peoples claims and then been accused of being the person that the claim is about despite being completely unrelated... i just want some concrete deets, man. not saying that SMR is better because i strongly prefer ARR, but both ARR and SMR have their dogshit proof-devoid drama at times.

tangentially related but im exhausted of drama where people accuse someone/a group of something serious, then dont post any proof whatsoever and claim that it's because they'll get in trouble if they share proof. i understand that there are cases where retribution is possible but its been so frequent that if theres no proof i just assume its usually people lying on the internet for fun and/or malice