Nonny we’re saying WE’RE NOT THOSE ASSHOLES. Those assholes exist. They should absolutely be called out. But since the world is not perfect, all the rest of us need to learn how not to let them ruin our lives. Saying “wow, this corner of the internet is full of assholes, I’m going to not come back here” is not letting them win. It’s depriving them of a victim.