actually i buy it, in some places getting an actual dx is a racket and they'll split appointments up for no reason just to milk more money out of you. it blows

still it's no excuse to play pretend that you are a fictional character and bully others into pretending with you. i think it's cool there are anons here being charitable and empathetic about why these situations arise but i'm just too burnt by my own past experiences to extend much of the same kindness :\