I can understand feeling left out if you don't want to reach out to try and gain access to the content and events happening in those communities, but I also don't think that artists in locked servers owe you access to their work, especially if posting it where lurkers can find it puts them at risk of harassment. "Good enough" in this context usually means that you haven't publicly sent anyone death threats on Twitter, or are mutuals with people that do. If you aren't "good enough" by that standard then maybe these discord fandom communities aren't a good fit for you.
Re: OT Thread (Other fandom salt)