no i think it's unfortunately like this in any fandom that gets more than a few crumbs of attention. it's why i never interact with anyone beyond small conversation and have entirely different alts for each of my interests, if the choice to just remain completely anonymous (like here) isn't available. not that i really engage in anything unusual or generally considered problematic, i just wouldn't touch most of the other people in the fandoms i'm in with a ten foot pole

and especially not on twitter