Agreed. Every time when someone tries to discuss the state of dom with the leads, they reply with 'IRL issues'. Then ofc people respond with 'IRL is more important than FR' and nothing changes. I don't know why they can't ask for help. I'm pretty sure there will be many people willing to run programs and such.

Tbh I get weird vibes from the 'busy with IRL' reply. It is mentioned very often when dom leads apologize for delays. It feels kinda... guilt-trippy to me. It's almost like they're saying 'we can't do dom properly, so no dom for you. cope' bevause they never ask for help either