Ahh okay, I understand now. Thank you! Yeah, that was a question meant to be in good faith.
I think what got me is how you said it, since you used the shrug emoji and it appeared to look really smarmy, which to me, reads like I was being talked down to. It's a common thing to say "if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself!" but in this situation, I didn't find it to be all too possible, but hey, I can and would love to be proven wrong here. I didn't see it as a simple disagreement as you explained, I saw it like you had taken my opinion of the blog personally and belittled/deflected my opinion. After all, that's typically what the goal is when someone says "don't like it don't look!" from what I can recall. It feels dismissive.
Your 5th point confuses me still... Yes, the fact that I have to wade through it is my own issue because it is my own personal opinion regarding the posts. But... I wanted the salt. So I waded through it knowing I'd have to go through the shit posts. I don't get this all-or-none principle you've got going on where I have to not look at the blog entirely if I dislike how it's run. As well, me making a salt blog to get the salt without the shit is something that I already explained would probably have a hard time getting off the ground.
I think that's why I believed you didn't like me expressing my opinions on SMR. Because you came off rather offputting in response to me, I believed that's where you were going with it cause it really did read to me like "just dont follow lol".
I just don't get why you care whether I follow SMR or not or make a new salt blog or not if I dislike SMR's content. At first I thought maybe, "oh it was just a suggestion/them trying to help you", but the way you came off really didn't feel like that, so I don't get it. If I didn't want to look at the blog at all, I wouldn't. But I wanted the salt, so I dug. I can still complain about what I'm digging through though, so I did.
I hope you feel better soon though dude, your health is much more important than internet fights with randoms. I also think that if it upsets you this much, maybe a step away from the drama blogs is required, since I used to be addicted in the past and it really ate me up so I think I can get what you're feeling. That type of toxicity can kinda spread to you and take influence, y'know?
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I think what got me is how you said it, since you used the shrug emoji and it appeared to look really smarmy, which to me, reads like I was being talked down to. It's a common thing to say "if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself!" but in this situation, I didn't find it to be all too possible, but hey, I can and would love to be proven wrong here. I didn't see it as a simple disagreement as you explained, I saw it like you had taken my opinion of the blog personally and belittled/deflected my opinion. After all, that's typically what the goal is when someone says "don't like it don't look!" from what I can recall. It feels dismissive.
Your 5th point confuses me still... Yes, the fact that I have to wade through it is my own issue because it is my own personal opinion regarding the posts. But... I wanted the salt. So I waded through it knowing I'd have to go through the shit posts. I don't get this all-or-none principle you've got going on where I have to not look at the blog entirely if I dislike how it's run. As well, me making a salt blog to get the salt without the shit is something that I already explained would probably have a hard time getting off the ground.
I think that's why I believed you didn't like me expressing my opinions on SMR. Because you came off rather offputting in response to me, I believed that's where you were going with it cause it really did read to me like "just dont follow lol".
I just don't get why you care whether I follow SMR or not or make a new salt blog or not if I dislike SMR's content. At first I thought maybe, "oh it was just a suggestion/them trying to help you", but the way you came off really didn't feel like that, so I don't get it. If I didn't want to look at the blog at all, I wouldn't. But I wanted the salt, so I dug. I can still complain about what I'm digging through though, so I did.
I hope you feel better soon though dude, your health is much more important than internet fights with randoms. I also think that if it upsets you this much, maybe a step away from the drama blogs is required, since I used to be addicted in the past and it really ate me up so I think I can get what you're feeling. That type of toxicity can kinda spread to you and take influence, y'know?