i'm not sure this is what those users are worried about though? i'm assuming op is referring to two recent saltmine posts (one about breeding a gay trans dragon and the other about putting stims in their dragons profiles), which both came across more as them being worried ppl would call them out for things like stereotypes or fetishization or appropriating things or something.

in which case, yes those anons are probably overthinking it because most people aren't going to care unless you make an actual offensive character, but i can still understand being anxious given there definitely are a few people who would be jerks because they don't think their trans dragon is trans enough or only autistic people are allowed to have an autistic dragon with stims, or so on.