ngl i have a pretty large hateboner for the term, because i've primarily seen it used alongside implications that the "malewife" is usually the submissive partner and im sick to death of both "domesticity = female" and "feminine = submissive." and it reminds me of when people act like bottom and submissive (or top and dominant) are inherently the same thing, which i also hate.

but i also recognize that gender is fucky and people personally resonate with all kinds of things for all kinds of reasons, none of which they owe me or anyone else explanations for