+1 to posting this in the Wanker area, but when you do can you also maybe explain more of what they've done? i have no idea who this person is and would love to read the tea on what happened previously

non drama talk but i understand the position you're in an how easy it to have nasty people living rent free in your head. i know it's hard but it's not worth it to obsess over them and it's super unhealthy for you.